Category: Theory

NYC: Commitments, Daygame, and 150 Sets

Greetings daygamers… from the Big Apple. I’ve been here a few hours. I’m excited. Life for me right now is a mix of promise and self-doubt. This is going to be a good week, a hard week, a wild week. I have hopes. I have curiosity. There is only one New York City and I…




The Education of a Young Girl | Sundance’s Daygame Lay

This is a story about Sundance’s* latest daygame lay. About little girls and the Secret Society. And about the role of experience in the sexual marketplace… Who’s got it, how it’s earned, and what that means. Let’s begin with this POV: Imagine you’re a young, 20-something guy, trying to date some cute girl you know…




The Red Quest | Early Frame Announcement

“For some reason, at least half a dozen women have told me on first dates or near first dates about abuse or “abuse,” and with every one of them I did the same thing: no more dates, no more escalation. Don’t need that shit. If she’s sharing it inappropriately early, run.” — The Red Quest…




Realness, Rollcall, Comradery

I had a great lunch this week with Runner and Buckle. Some smart dudes. Good conversation and Japanese food. That’s a strong formula for a memorable afternoon. Runner was a major mentor of mine. We met over 10 years ago, when I was already middle aged, but was just starting to get into game. He…




Metaphors: The Secret Society and Train Stations

From Rivelino and I in the comments of a recent post: “I’m still in awe at how quickly ‘strangers’ can touch each other’s lives.” — Nash so beautiful and so true. — Rivelino When Riv picked out that line from my most recent daygame lay report, it reminded me of parts of this story that…




Leads, Critical Mass, Girl Tornadoes, and Optimization | Two Dates

Daygame feels very alive for me this summer. I dated four girls in the last eight days… fucked two of them. I have had a limiting belief that I have no game in Spring and Summer. And that notion (like many others since I started to get my head above water as a player) is…




Rust Removal and Encouraging Tornadoes

Rust Removal and Encouraging Tornadoes Cobrantula wrote a post recently about getting back on the hunt after some time off. He is clearly on the players journey, and the dude works hard. But he’d been at a wedding recently and his regularly scheduled quest for quim had been disrupted for a spell. As this thing…




Triggering State | I-date with a Japanese Teenager

Wow, she was a cute one. 19 years old… But that was a surprise. I didn’t figure that out until the quick street-date was almost over. I’ll get into the notes and that little date, but first… Some theory that’s been on my mind lately. It had been a rough day. Started out by having…




I Fired a Girl | Red Flags, Female Encroachment

I think I am kicking a girl out of my harem. She’s fired. I’m not 100% sure I’ll stick to my decision, but I think that’s what I’m doing. This is all new for me. I have three girls on rotation right now: The Siren (one of my favorite girls of all time), Miss Thick…




Goldmund’s Advanced Game Techniques Ebook Review

I read an ebook this week and it inspired a couple of thoughts about game. I love talking about game, so here goes. This started when Rivelino’s blog (congrats, man!) had a quick reference to a guy called Goldmund. That name sounded familiar, and it was, because Krauser did a couple of episodes of the…